“When we give cheerfully & accept gratefully, everyone is blessed”

–Maya Angelou
These are a few of my favorite things…

love languages:

Giving gifts isn’t material to me. A gift is the physical representation of the thought, time, and effort someone has gone through to show how much they appreciate you. While a gift is never an expectation, if you decide you’d like to indulge me, I have put together a list to guide you.

Want to cheat?

check out my wishlist

food:

Italian rainbow cookies, chocolate, steak, & sushi

Drinks:

Chai Tea, infused water, & whiskey

colors:

Pinks, rose gold, black, and teal.

clothing:

Size 6 dress & small/medium. 34 B bra size. Knee socks are a favorite

shoe size:

Size 6

scent:

Vanilla or Woodsy aromas.

Hobbies:

Hiking, reading, movies, & travel

the specifics

Honey Birdette, Thistle & Spire, Bordelle. I tend to gravitate toward strappy lingerie. I love garter belts and stockings.

Sephora, Amazon, & Jet Blue Airlines. If you are looking to gift me something a bit more spicy, I buy most of my toys from Stockroom, Extreme Restraints, and KinkStore

There are few things I enjoy more than a spa. King spa in Fort Lee, NJ, SoJo Spa Club in Edgewater, NJ & Aire Ancient Baths in NYC are the ones I frequent most often.

I don’t wear much jewelry but occasionally I will wear a necklace or bracelet. I look best in gold tones. My favorite stone is opal.

I love museums and the theater. A date to either would make me giddy. Painting, photography, sculpture, mixed media, poetry are all passions of mine.

I am an avid reader. Lately I have been on a memoir kick. However, I primarily enjoy fiction, sci fi, and adventure themes. Adult themed content is also enjoyable. If you want to do something extra special, share a copy of your favorite book with me.

I am passionate about music. Some of my favorites are Indie, Emo, Metal, 90-2000’s alt, Rock, EDM, and folk. That being said, I listen to most genres. A good gift would be a ticketmaster gift card.

I’ve been described as a movie buff. Most weekends I can be found in a theater. Some of my favorite genres are Thrillers, Sci Fi, Fantasy, Horror, and Dramas.

If nothing above feels quite right, please consider donating to any of these organizations on my behalf. Each organization has been vetted and is for a cause near and dear to me.

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Lysistrata

An online based, community run sex worker mutual care collective. Funds collected are distributed directly to marginalized Sex Workers in need.

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Decrim ny

Advocates and organizes to shape New York City and State policy and public opinion around people in the sex trades. They seek to improve the lives of people who perform sexual labor by choice, circumstance, or coercion, people profiled as such, and communities impacted by the criminalization of sex work and sexual exchange.

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The Black Sex Workers Collective

A philanthropic arts project seeking to amplify the voices of Black Sex Workers by addressing their needs through peer support, legal assistance, housing and other basic needs assessment.

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Swop Behind Bars

SWOP uses a harm reduction framework to offer various resources, community-building projects, educational programs, and advocacy to end violence and stigma against sex workers in the criminal justice system.  This includes those currently incarcerated and those seeking re-entry services

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Red Umbrella Fund

Red Umbrella Fund is a sex worker-led, participatory fund. It is the first and only global fund dedicated to supporting the rights of sex workers.

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